I saw the video below on one of my favorite blogs [the blog is at best, Pg-13…if you are offended by profanity, I’d tread carefully]
Jenny [The Bloggess] wrote about the fact that she is someone who doesn’t have a 5 year plan. I love her even more for posting about it!
Last weekend when I was deciding if I needed to purchase another journal, I ran across a journal to help someone develop a 5 year plan.
[It was serendipitous that The Bloggess wrote about this topic]
I started thinking about the fact that I don’t have a 5 year plan. I really don’t even have a 1 year plan. OK. I don’t have any plans. I have dreams, aspirations, wants, desires, and goals…but not much of a plan.
I am realizing each day that I don’t need some big elaborate plan…because what seems to happen to the elaborate plans that most people make is that life gets in the way of their plan; or they are working SO hard to stick to their plan that life passes them by…and they miss out on so many lovely opportunities to live their life.
Sure…it’s good to know how you are going to meet your basic needs..but I keep thinking about how we have gotten so far away from our basic needs that we really don’t even know what our basic needs are. That is something I am working on doing. Getting back to the basics. Figuring out what things bring me joy, and finding a way to make the joyful a part of my everyday. I’ve been there before. It was when I let things be simple. When I made sure I was doing work that brought me joy, used my strengths and made me excited to get out of bed each morning. I’m not there right now. I like what I do…but I don’t love it…and the gap between like and love is a pretty big one. Big enough for joy to fall into the abyss and get lost.
So what is my plan? The only plan I have now is to figure out what’s next. Not 5 years from now “next”…but tomorrow or next week…or possibly next month. Sure…I may know what I think I want to do a few months from now….but I don’t set the plan in stone because then I am not open to what other possibilities might be out there for me.
If you are a 5 year planner, that’s fantastic. It just doesn’t work for me. Anyone who has been through as many phases as I have, can’t really be a planner. It just isn’t in my DNA. (OK..that’s a lie. My Dad is a super-planner. He wishes I had received that DNA strand..but I didn’t. Sorry Dad….but he can’t say that I haven’t made life
stressful interesting for him with my lack of a plan. LOVE YOU DAD!)
So…I will remain a girl without a 5 year plan. And that’s OK.
I think this video says it perfectly: